Ascension of Intimacy School of Tantra

Testimonials

In their own words

Some spoken to camera, some written down: longer than a pull quote, because somebody's actual experience carries more than a sentence ever will. Every name here is a real one.

I was in the middle of getting divorced. I wanted to figure out how to be the best version of me in every aspect of my life, from my health coaching business, to being a mother, and one day a wife.

I have worked with a therapist before, but Lana took me to a new level. I learned how to fully trust myself and my intuition, I have gained confidence and clarity, and I have learned to follow my desires and give myself permission to not live in the “shoulds.” I have had numerous friends and family comment on how happy I look and act.

I've become acquainted with Lana as a powerful coach and leader whose aim is to empower women to reach their highest potential. She provides great support for women going through any sort of relationship struggle, whether that struggle has to do with trust, confidence, fears or doubts.

She is warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental. She is a fantastic listener who listens with her heart, reading between the lines of what is being said. She is patient, and her insights are always revelatory.

I have always been in traditional therapy. But I stopped going because the mainstream just did not get where I was or what I saw. I needed someone who was nonjudgmental, yet someone who could help me see and guide me on my journey.

She has helped me in a short time to see and understand who I really am. I see things in myself I didn't know were in me. I learned how to trust my intuition, and how to navigate the ups and downs in life. She helped me find a place of peace and calm inside myself.

After working with Lana I had a greater awareness about the kind of relationship I want with a man. I trusted Lana with my vision of the connection I want because I know she is both confidential and professional. She is an excellent listener, compassionate, and offered gentle guidance. I came away with a clearer idea of what I want, how to seek it, and how to align my actions with my vision.

Lana starts our sessions with brief but powerful meditations that help ground my thoughts and body before we begin. Through her deep listening, she is able to ask all the right questions that allow me to reflect on my situation differently. The whole experience put me at ease and helped me see things that had previously been hidden from me.

I was having relationships with men that never worked out. I always felt like I was trying so hard to make them work, not getting the same feelings in return. I wanted to work with Lana because I felt too dependent on validation from men and unsure of how to get what I wanted and needed.

Lana's process required me to peel layers of behaviours, patterns, emotions and desires to understand myself much better. I've had to get out of my comfort zone and explore areas we don't usually think about. Another lightbulb was working on desires: I realised I'd only ever thought about what I don't want. It's hard work but so worth it. I feel stronger as a woman and better prepared to seek and get what I want in life.

Being driven and ambitious by nature, I achieve the goals that I set for myself through persistence, discipline, perseverance and regular action. Being very well connected with this energy, which is very much masculine, I had disconnected from my feminine energy, and through her work, Lana helped me reconnect with that creative, joyful, loving part of me that I wasn't tapping into frequently enough.

My biggest learning while working with Lana has been that you could have it all. You do not need to be either/or: you could blend the masculine and the feminine energy within you in such a beautiful and empowering way that you can achieve your greatest aspirations and dreams, in a way that feels authentic to you.

I've known Lana for over three years now. Lana is a powerhouse of wisdom, strength, and commitment to healing. She is a remarkable woman with a capacity to understand, hold, and support each person's transformation.

I have experienced Lana's expertise as a facilitator as well as a colleague, and she has been unfailingly present and effective, with profound insight into the feminine and masculine forces. She has an uncanny ability to lead people towards love and trust in their lives, and to resolve the obstacles of fear and self-doubt.

Lana has the most beautiful energy and knowledge that has taken me forward beyond my dreams. She is a High Priestess in my world that sees my blind spots and gently pushes me forward. She has encouraged me to follow my heart and helped me make courageous decisions that have opened up my love life and helped me become even happier.

I had been married for several decades to a wonderful woman who gradually discovered that she is gay. I was needing help to figure out how to proceed and be successful in being the type of person that can be attractive to an amazing woman.

While working with Lana I learned how to properly pay attention to others and be fully present. What surprised me the most was that flowing with and paying attention to the energy that I am approaching the relationship with, and the energy of my partner, can be so increasingly powerful and beautiful. Lana is an excellent teacher who is willing to work through hard things.

Lana's greatest gift is in empowering others to trust themselves, to heal, and to grow beyond what they thought they were capable of. I love that she doesn't try to fix anyone's problems herself; she just helps them gain the tools to help themselves.

I've watched her come prepared to a group session only to realise quickly that what she'd prepared, while wonderful, wasn't exactly what the group needed. Her intuition allowed her to reach for other tools that were exactly right. A group of people unsure of themselves and each other quickly became friends ready to face their struggles together.

When I started working with Lana I was going through a very hard period. I broke up with my husband that I still loved and it crushed me. I was lost, confused, depressed and didn't believe in myself.

I learned so much about my own boundaries, how to set them and keep them firm. I discovered my own feminine power and started to live from that place. I used to overreact when I was emotionally triggered, and it was damaging. Lana helped me develop new skills, master my emotions, and communicate with clarity and compassion. She told me: “Do you know how many times a child falls down before they learn to walk?”

Lana built an exquisite programme for women who seek true happiness in relationships with their partners and themselves. The major work happens during the homework: every module is like a map with the route to the right answer. Gradually I went from a state of complete devastation and bewilderment to full presence and awareness. I know who I am, I know where I am going, I know what I want, and I know how to get it.

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